We have been trying (with varying degrees of success) to prepare W1 and L1 for the arrival of their baby sister in December. L1 is mostly oblivious, but W1 seems to understand that we will have a new baby in our house. At least, that is what I thought until we had the following conversation:
To preface, we were talking about his friends who have baby sisters, and W1 got a little mixed up in the words.
W1: L1 a baby sister?
K1: No, L1 is your little brother. He is called your brother because L1 is a boy.
W1: Oh.
K1: And we call your baby sister a sister because she is a... (attempting to prompt W1 to come up with the right answer)
W1: Black?
K1: (fumbling around trying to figure out what he means, we haven't talked in terms of race before, and how do I answer this...) Ummm.
W1: (seeing that wasn't the right answer) Purple?
K1: (relieved) No, because baby sister is a girl.
W1: Oh.
Now I'm not entirely sure
what he is expecting.
P.S. We have talked many times about the differences between boys and girls (in very general terms, mind you), and he
seems to get it...